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Tuesday, April 18, 2006

Am I a loser???


I am 52% loser. What about you? Click here to find out!

25 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

I ask the same questions all the time... What am I?

I feel lost alone, and sad sometimes but never let anyone know. I try to be myselfs sometimes but that never works. I am never the one in love... I am capable of getting any guy I wanted but fall for those who want nothing more than a trophy... I hate were I am. Help.

2:51 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

hahahaha...
nice one!

7:42 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Sometimes I feel that I should be more than I am. I feel as if I can get myself into winner situations, but after that I tend to bomb. Sometimes I wonder if I have self destructive tendencies. You know, where I find myself in a good situation, but then for some reason, make myself fail.

One of the other posters said that she tries to be herself, but that never works. My question for you is... What do you want to happen?

I would say...be yourself, because any guy that doesn't want you for yourself, doesn't really want you.

9:13 AM  
Anonymous Fetus Jackson said...

I once crapped my pants and then smeared it all over the pope. He laughed and then we made love.

10:37 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I don't know what I've done with my life. I know I'm not a dumb person. I Know I have it in me to succeed. But the drive never comes. Here I am a 26 year old man and still dependent on my family for financial support. Cry to sleep. Take drugs.

Just got off the phone with my mother. She knows her son is a drug addict. She tells me that our neighbors son is becoming a helicopter pilot. Her own son is a drug addict. I can hear her dissapointment like a cannon through my heart. I can't pass a semester of school. Will I ever wake up? Cry to sleep. Take drugs.

7:55 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Boo fucking hoo, so STOP taking the fucking drugs and start doing something with your life. The problem is your WAITING for something to just roll up and make it all better, and just give you that drive, just like mummy used to do. If you actually DO want to be a man, and not just a big hairy child, then at some point you must take responsibility for it YOURSELF and actually ACT like a man.

accept that it will be hard and do it anyway, RIGHT NOW

10:24 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

To the tough guy will all the advice, you are an ass, have probably "done the right thing" all your life, and have no idea what it is to be of well above average intelligence, have the world open to you, yet you know that to commit to a decision will likely lock you into a single path in life. It's easy to go to church, be conservative in behavior/mindset and "obey"... I'd love to see how well you architect your own life (car salesman?, insurance broker?, hmmm...)

Now to the young Man -- Literally, you must first commit to hanging in there. I am 42, and only in the last 5 years of my life, have felt myself moving in a decisively positive direction. It has not been a happy road, and I was probably exactly where you are at when I was 26, accusatory and disappointed mother and all. Looking back, I can swear to at least two things: 1) You have time -- 36 is the new 26, etc. School will always be there: consider temporarily leaving gracefully so that you may return when you are ready.
[and by the same token...]
2) There is no time like "NOW". -- The key is to stay in motion. Find out how. If all you want right now is a simple job that gets you by, IMMEDIATELY take steps toward that. Don't waste time burning credit hours against your school record, try your best to not *give yourself the chance* to be depressed, etc. Motion really is the method, even if you feel like crap. Exercise, see friends, play music, get that simple job, take spectacular trips (can be on the cheap... Ever seen the red rock canyons of Utah??...), whatever it takes.
That really is the first step -- Stepping out of the depressive routine, and replacing it with motion.

A fact: This is a disappointing world in many ways, full of foundational lies about it's own integrity.. People who feel, people who really think, need that separation time away from the threshold between the lies of childhood and the reality of modern life on Earth... But you can find your way. Yes, the sooner the better. But it's about motion, not wasting the present if you can help it, and learning how to set milestones for yourself once you start to feel your power.

Truly, the best of all things for you. You can do it.

9:57 AM  
Blogger aureo said...

I would be just fine if people didn't think they were so better than me. I'm nice to everyone. But that doesn't seem to cut it. I hafta be a supermodel, too.

8:33 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i'm a big loser,i never succeed in anything in my life,i'm 22 now and i have schizophrenia,i see illusions,i see things horrible that are not real,i feel horrible things,i hear voices,i was never completely healthy,it's been 7 years my life turned into hell,i wish to die,but it's not meant for me,i tried suicide twice,idk how to get over this porn addiction,everytime i say i'll stop there's a time when i still watch porn,i can't understand why i fail in everything,if there weren't for my parents i would have died from hunger,i can't find any work,i have no friends,i have no wife,i've never had a girlfriend even if i was very handsome,some called me even a top model,but i was so shy to get a girl,cause i didn't knew how to kiss,i never thought that i would really become what i feared,i want to help my family and take care of them but i'm not able to do that,i only got a high school diploma and that's the only thing i achieved in my life,i can do great rnb and hip hop music many say why am i not a millioner,i would say to them cause things don't work out for me i'm a loser,i fail always,i always want to win,i never want to lose but i lose all the time,if there is someone who wants to help me,than send me a message or add me on msn

a-z_production@hotmail.fr

thanx for reading,bye.

8:04 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

your all a bunch a losers.suck a fucking dick and grow up, the last guy....dude man, just pound some jack till your fuzzy and take a walk on the free way at night...wearing a black jogging suit...fuckin fruit cake, im pissed off that google even sends me a possible link to the bullshit.wtf

3:19 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

guy above me is a dick who probably got sued by the parents of someone who suicided, since it was his fault. nice one jackass.

3:55 AM  
Blogger Alex said...

Yeah really...Fuck that guy...He was so angry he had time to read everyone's legitamate gripes about being human..i dunno it's all too easy to discredit yourself and listen to everyone tell you how to live ur life...the reason they propose alternatives to our lifestyle choices sincerly must be the fact that they aren't happy with there own? ... the only thing i do know is im so sick of everyone bitching constantly...people come home from work and turn on the tv...get a job...complain about there day and do it agian... it's totally illogical i wish people would really sit down n genuinely care about other people...but no one does...Humans disgust me with their non stop selfishness...:-) but hope u all have a wonderful day... Peace but upon you all inshallah

11:08 AM  
Blogger aureo said...

Life... Well, life is weird. But I'm always told u create your life, cuz life is a dream. u just have to figure out how to control it! :) Mentally, not physically

6:20 AM  
Blogger aureo said...

Also, life may seem like hell. Heck yeah I've been there, and I'm nopt even in highschool yet. Life will kick me down... and only i can pick myself up. Help may be on its way, or right beside me.. but i always need to count on myself. Dont care wat anyone else thinks. we're seriously not perfect.. and you can fine joy and life again right around the corner. Just look.

6:24 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

to the guy with the dumbass comments. you probably have the saddest life of all. so you sit here and talk shit, but really your just a fag who never got attention from mommy and daddy. grow up dick head. wish i knew who you were so i could fuck you up.

2:39 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I too am a loser, always have and will always be...

10:38 PM  
Blogger John said...

that really helped my fucking self esteem.

4:02 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I am a love-handicapped loser.... I get so close to starting a relationship, then it all goes tumbling downhill... girls like me, but not relationshipwise. I cover up my depression and noone knows any different. I feel like a hallow shell. I don't want sympathy, I just want someone who cares.

9:17 AM  
Anonymous dryus said...

dear all every body is a loser,human being is a loser,all living beings at the end are losers,thats in there nature!

2:20 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I would say one thing to the people who are posting above; you have no choice to embrace anything other than what is available. That is the harshest, but most percepient truth that there is. I was in the exact same position as many above. Bullied, and abused, severely during childhood and adolescence, I became a complete social recluse and drug addict. In our modern western world of almost illusory oppurtunities, and unattainable glamour in the media, so many people get gridlocked in life because they can't be at all assertive. Nearly everyone here is suffering from some form of chronic social anxiety. Your only choice is to look at the positives, it's really that simple. For those who shun such a notion citing 'I just can't', I say to you what does such logic mean for the millions of gulag, concentration camp victims? Or the girls kidnapped and forced into sex slavery? You MUST act, and you MUST realise that the path you are on is self defeating.

1:36 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

to all those who have posted
the odds on two people getting together, having intercourse, for the conception and all the miracles that entails, for you, that baby to grow and develop; physically and mentally, to be able to communicate your concerns in an intelligible fashion...well they would be huge...

you, every single one of you, without exception is special. you are a miracle...this is a cause for celebration, not questioning self worth.

to take the time to read these posts, and then for you to post your own comments says to me you are someone of worth. ignore the media, its portrayal of a perfect world...it doesn’t exist. no one is perfect, that is the beauty of life; incalculable diversity.
so...your question should be, ‘what can i do, to improve the quality of my life...knowing how special and equal i am.’

live life people, we don’t get long to explore this wonderful world.


Q

1:55 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

hi! I read all the comments.., there are some people out there who know my feelings

4:28 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Everyone of us here are here because we all questioned something about ourselves. In this case " am I a loser"? First of all life is a journey, and everyone has a certain path that will lead them to the place they belong. For anyone fighting drug Addiction I know how it hurts. My brother died from overdose. Six years later I find myself depressed and addicted to the narcotic that killed him. Imagine how I must have been feeling about myself. You can always come back, no matter what. It is that little voice saying you want more that you need to shut out. Speaking words out loud over your life is a great way to begin. Every morning make the first thing you say " I will not do drugs, I am not a loser, I am strong, I am thankful to be alive today." whatever your greatest weakness is speak out against it. You have to fight for yourself. This can take months years. You have to fight or you will lose. Everyone has there own fight. People seem to get very caught up with trying to succeed by what society sees as success. And doing so by societies " timeline" you have until you die to figure out what you were born for. Find out what makes you happy, guilt free, and with a sense of self belonging. And then you may begin to see the road you wish to go down. The road that you see yourself being the person you've always wanted to be. Hang in there everyone life is a challenge, but if your up for it then you will succeed. Jesus loves you all. God bless.

8:09 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I thought I was a loser, but after reading all these comments, I feel pretty good. Thanks !!

6:15 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Am i a loser ????

As the very first comment, my situation is almost similar. I am very successful in my Career but i lost my friends, i never had any girl friend nor i don't no how to speak to a girl. So to overcome that i just work more so that i will be engaged in something, mostly 12/7days.

11:25 AM  

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